The Sixth Insight... Clearing The Past

"The more we stay connected, the more we are acutely aware of those times when we lose connection, usually when we are under stress. In these times, we can see our own particular way of stealing energy from others. Once our manipulations are brought to personal awareness, our connection becomes more constant and we can discover our own growth path in life, and our spiritual mission--the personal way we can contribute to the world."

In order to be in a state of love with the universe on a daily basis, we have to let go of patterns of behavior we developed to take energy from one another. We have to become aware of our "Control Dramas" and break our controlling habits. There are four ways of causing others to give us energy, two are actively demanding energy, and the other two are passively creating conditions in which energy is sent. "Active" control dramas include (Intimidation and Interrogation)- asking questions and then picking the answer apart. "Passive" control dramas include aloofness- which creates an air of mystery that entices others to send energy. And the "Poor Me" which creates a sense that if others don't provide energy, something awful will happen to them (the controller).

We have to get clear of our own control dramas. We have to understand our parents control dramas and how they affected and shaped our own control dramas. We must learn what meaning our parents lives had for us, and how this determines our own developmental work. Things we would change about our parents are what we need to work on in our own lives.